EndorsementsHow To Cut
America’s Divorce Rate in Half by Mike McManus
How to Cut America’s Divorce Rate in Half is a timely
and important work. As we look to secure a better future for our
children there is nothing more fundamental than the
strengthening of the American family. The first step in
strengthening the family is reforming no-fault divorce. Mike
McManus’ latest work provides a strategy to reform this broken
system.
Tony Perkins, President, Family Research Council and author
of the nation’s first covenant marriage law.
Divorce is the most serious force for family destruction in
the Western world today, and therefore it is also the greatest
threat to both civic order and freedom itself. Mike McManus’s
proposal for mutual consent divorce and other reforms offers the
realistic prospect of drastically reducing divorce rate by half
and of creating a needed national dialogue on this unaddressed
crisis.
Stephen Baskerville, Ph.D., Associate Professor of Government
at Patrick Henry College and author of “Taken Into Custody: The
War Against Fathers, Marriage, and the Family”
As a divorce lawyer, I see every day how much carnage and
anger the divorce process causes, and how damaging it is to men,
women and children alike. But there is an immense gap between
the dissatisfaction that comes out of the process, and actually
doing something constructive about it. People need to realize
that the real cause of their problems is not their parents,
their ex, the other sex in general, or the lawyers or the
judges. They need to raise their horizons and see that the real
problem is divorce itself. Just as difficult, is identifying
specific social actions, public policies and laws that can help
to reduce divorce. This book bridges those gaps, from
dissatisfaction to understanding, to clear policy ideas, to
sensible, proven techniques to organize for effective advocacy.
Mike McManus has a track record of “being the change” that he
advocates, with his decades of work building Community Marriage
Policies and many other efforts to protect marriage. With this
book, he points the way towards changes that could reduce
divorce by 50%, as part of a cultural revolution just as
profound and dramatic as the one that gave us our present-day
levels of divorce, cohabitation and single parenthood.
John Crouch, Director, Americans For Divorce Reform
The divorce reform proposed by Mike McManus is revolutionary
and absolutely unprecedented. It would save millions of
marriages and stabilize American families, giving kids a much
better start in life. I can’t think of any reform that could
make America a better place.”
Don Wildmon, Chairman, American Family Association.
Every pastor is stunned by the number of couples in his
church who divorce. Few of them realize that in four out of five
cases, one spouse does NOT want the divorce, but is forced to
accept it because the law actually grants every divorce,
shattering the lives of children. Mike McManus puts his finger
on a simple but profound answer: require that in cases involving
children that both parents would have to agree to a divorce,
except in cases of adultery or physical abuse. I believe this
change in the law could cut the divorce rate in half. That would
spare 500,000 children from seeing their parents divorce each
year, and save $50-$100 billion in taxpayer funds. This is an
issue that should be taken to those running for state or federal
offices in this election year.
Rev. Richard Cizik, Vice President of the National Association
of Evangelicals
The American people have always leaned to the view that
divorce laws are not strict enough, particularly as they relate
to the raising of children. Michael McManus’ proposed mutual
consent law is certain to appeal to a large segment of the
populous.
George Gallup, Jr. Founder George H. Gallup International
Institute
Michael McManus is to be commended for sounding the alarm on
the devastatingly negative impact No Fault Divorce has had on
our society. However, perhaps the most valuable thing about
How to Cut the Divorce Rate in Half is that McManus does not
just curse the darkness—he lights candles in that darkness. He
draws a blueprint for how we can substantially remedy the
catastrophe of divorce in our nation and how ordinary citizens
can make a difference. This is a much-needed and encouraging
book.
Dr. Richard Land, President. The Southern Baptist Convention’s
Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission
The Catholic Church does not believe in divorce at all, but
is encouraged that polls reveal that by a 2-1 margin Americans
believe it should “be harder than it is now for married couples
with young children to get a civil divorce (61% to 35%).” How
To Cut America’s Divorce Rate in Half suggests how to do
that, by requiring written mutual consent of both a mother and
father before any divorce is granted. By giving the spouse who
wants to save the marriage an equal voice with an unhappy mate,
many marriages could be restored, perhaps saving most of them.
Bishop Gerald A. Gettelfinger, Catholic Diocese of Evansville
We need to reform our divorce laws, as Mike McManus suggests,
replacing unilateral (or “no-fault”) divorce with mutual consent
divorce where children are involved. This reform would, in the
words of one prominent divorce attorney, “not only influence the
decision to divorce, but the behavior and choices that lead to
divorce.” McManus recognizes that laws governing marriage and
divorce decisively shape people’s understanding of the meaning
of marriage and affect their behavior and choices. Laws are not
neutral. They have an impact—for better or worse--on the
marriage culture. Getting the right laws into place is among the
most critical tasks we face.
Robert P. George, McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence,
Princeton University
The book Mike McManus has written makes a valuable
contribution at this point in our history, on the eve of the
election of a new president. He restores the critical focus on
divorce law reform that was overtaken and overshadowed by the
struggle over same-sex marriage.
Katherine Spaht, Professor Emeritus, Landry Professor of Law,
Louisiana State University
With precise reasoning, overwhelming data, and a passionate
heart, Mike McManus creates a marriage manifesto. A compelling
piece, that when implemented, will systemically and
significantly raise the quality of life for all Americans for
generations. The evidence is clear and it is time to act. Mike
McManus makes a case for churches, social entities and
government – both State and National – to act. The more quickly
we act the more quickly we will be safer, richer, smarter,
stronger, happier and healthier. This is a no-brainer strategy
with nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Pastor Jeff Meyers. Christ Lutheran Church, Overland Park,
Kansas
In How to Cut America’s Divorce Rate In Half, Mike
McManus gives a call to action we must not ignore! In this short
book, Mike lays out the facts and figures in a strategy for
helping change the divorce culture. Read it, act and let your
voice be heard!
David and Claudia Arp, founders Marriage Alive International and
authors of “10 Great Dates Before You Say ‘I Do.’”
Michael McManus provides a compelling case for reforming
divorce law in America. His policy proposals are right on the
money; they would go a long way to renewing the culture of
marriage in our nation.
W. Bradford Wilcox, Ph.D., associate professor of sociology at
the University of Virginia and member of the James Madison
Society, Princeton University |
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